Leading by example

It seems obvious because it is obvious... but for some reason, it was a huge revelation to me. Why is it that Lily almost always says "thank you" when I never remember teaching her that? Because Rob and I almost always say it. Every day. A million times. So she says it. Every day. A million times. Until I ask her to say it... And then I'm in for a huge battle. So moral of the story? How much more influential (and easier) are my actions than my words! Why waste my breath when instead of telling her, I could just show her. See? Obvious. But this is one I wanted to remember. :)

Thankful

And I'm back... More things to be thankful for this (long) weekend. I can't remember what number I was on, so I'm going to start over...

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Weekends away with Daddy. I swear, every time we go away and Lily gets more intense "one on one" time with Daddy, this bond grows stronger and stronger and more adorable.


Lily conned Daddy into this "cat!!!" this weekend.

My personal favorite Daddy moment of the weekend and my maybe my life... When pointing out a Dad and 2 daughters to my husband (who was positive we were having a boy) this weekend and telling him that could be him someday, he said (drum roll, please), "I'd be okay with that." I seriously reared up. (You're welcome, Rob, for me sharing this with the whole world. It was just too good to pass up.)

2. Family that Lily doesn't quite remember become best friends when she finds out they have cats!!












Even Gampa Jim joined in the cat hunting fun!

3. Best friends.




4. Roadtrips where Rob stops the radio on "Marry Me Bill" and lets me belt it out (no picture necessary), we get to stop at the outlet mall and I see this in the backseat...




5. Going home to the puppies, our cozy bed, packages, a new Gilmore Girls DVD from netflix, a possible bonfire in the fall weather and ONE MORE DAY with "DA"! Bonus!! :)

Giving Thanks

I'm just going to admit it. I've been a crabby patty lately. I've spent a lot of time feeling sorry for myself about house problems, computer problems, fantasy football taking over my life problems. You get the picture. And really, don't we all? At least to some extent? (Please just say, "yes.") The truth is that in these moments I need to step back. I absolutely love my life... and I'm not just saying that. Sure, I have little things to complain about, just like everyone else. But no big things. And that's surely something to celebrate.

This week's biggest thing of all? The thing that started it all. The thing that made this beautiful life possible... marrying my husband. Three years ago tomorrow. Time sure flies when you're having fun.








The next amazing thing to be thankful about is another amazing person. My Mom. I couldn't be luckier. She's absolutely my best friend and the best Mom and Grandma a girl could ask for. And even better? We're lucky enough that she lives only a few small miles away so we get to do things like this all the time...





And I can't forget person number 3. My girl. :) As the days pass, the challenges are coming faster, but so are the joys. She may throw an absolute fit about shoes, but how can you deny the girl when it produces looks like this?





Today, she insisted on putting them on herself... on the wrong feet. And there was no taking them off... But how can you not love that smile?





(Can I just add that as I'm typing this, she just saw herself and screamed "BOOTS!!!" with pure joy.)

So I'm taking a deep breath and remembering that life really is beautiful. Trying not to stress the small stuff, or even the stuff that seems big now, but in the long run will turn small. We're enjoying the little things that life has to offer and giving thanks.

The way it feels...

Tangled up in my baby's snuggles.
A million "Mom"s that will grow fewer each year.
Remembering the way it feels.
To be needed. Loved.
So completely.
And to love back unconditionally.
Knowing she will always be my baby.
If only in my memory.



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The life of a Dancing Queen

Picture you're laying in bed snuggling your sleepy little girl watching "ya ya" (yo gabba gabba) one more time before she drifts to sleep. All the sudden, a song comes on and your comatose girl turns into one of the acts from America's Got Talent. She bolts upright, demands a hand from you and your husband each and wiggles and jiggles her body like there's no tomorrow. What do you expect? If there's music, no matter what the circumstance, sister's gotta dance!!! This is a part of our everyday life nowadays and we find it hilarious (and sometimes annoying)... But mostly awesome. ;)

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Another rather recent addition to our household dynamic... The love between a girl and her dog... Lily and "Tucka". The first thing Lily does every morning is call for Tucker. "Where Tucka? Tucka!!" She then proceeds to spend the day following poor Tucker everywhere and calling him if he so much as looks like he might be walking in another room. And though I do feel a bit bad for Wrigley, I find her adoration for my first love endearing and adorable.

Favorite Moments of our Trip

The 1st night at the hotel where the energizer bunny replaced Lily bunny jumping on beds and running around until late in the night.

Lily finally loved the water, but said "oh no, yuck!" when her feet brushed the sand.








Lily saying "awesome" for the first time mimicking Yo Gabba Gabba.

Family snuggles.

Smelly fish at fishtown.

Visiting with the Farrs in Bowers Cove and finding out Lil is definitely a "boat person".





Lunch outside overlooking the bay.





Family dancing.

New words "airplane", "boat", "okay" and "duck".

A room service date that Lily insisted on staying awake for.

South shore sandwiches.

Buying Lil her own bag of "M's" to eat.





The way my girl loves her Daddy and the way her Daddy loves her.





Falling in love with my husband all over again.

The Oneskos Take Traverse City

It's Wednesday night and that only means one thing... The greatest week of the year so far is winding down. Tomorrow's our last full day in Traverse City and time sure has flown by.









We started out our week exploring a great new find, Empire Beach. This picturesque little gem is located right near the sand dunes and was a perfect beginner beach playground for our girl. No water yet and only as much sand as she could reach from the blanket, but rock counting with Daddy was a big hit!

















The rest of our vacation has been rained out for the most part, but hasn't lacked a minute of fun. We've cherished every moment of family time with Daddy and spent our time visiting Fishtown, our favorite restaurant, Mackinaw Brewing Company, chatting with birdies and even making memories chilling out in the hotel.





















Wish we could spend every day with Daddy, but loving the time we have!